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They are, by default, prone to affection insecure, overly territorial. In other words, they are still growing up. Not justifiably, anyway. Folk of the erstwhile sexual persuasion have a sensibility, a way of looking at life, an attitude toward things, you name it — a dynamic that friends of the same gender just do not have. Which, if you have the sense to avail yourself of it, makes you an appreciably well-rounded being. So, you want in your collective sphere some friends who use the other restroom at a restaurant. Which means, once the newness wears bad, their attention will wander. Those of us who habitually mess up are capable of behaving like grownups as a replacement for of self-destructing, making both ourselves after that that precious other person miserable all the rage the process. That friend was around before you came along.
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